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  1. Hi, I’m hoping for a few comments from other women that may be going through what I’m dealing with right now. I had a complete hysterectomy in 1986, due to many complications with constant pain mostly after each monthly period. I suffered from my very first period (severe) pain; it felt like my entire organs we’re literally going to fall out, or as if I was suffering from some sort of infection. My periods we’re never normal, from the very first @ the age of 13, I was taken by my mother to see our local GYN, and I’m not sure exactly what he done, or why but he did something to help me along to begin my first period. Every single month was torture! Yes I experienced cramps, but along with the usual cramps, the kind of pain that I was experiencing was so severe that my mother would have to take me to the ER because each month I felt like I had a bad infection. My periods from the very onset we’re always very very light, they lasted at most two to three days max. There was hardly any bleeding. Each new month I was at the ER because of the horrible pain I experienced. Each period only lasted maybe a total of three four days top. Day one & two small bright red blood, then brownish old looking blood the remaining one to two days after. I’m not one of those kind of people that exaggerate, or add more to any given situation. In all honesty, I can say with total clarity that I seen approximately four to five separate physicians; some we’re GYN, while others we’re primary doctors. Two of the GYN doctors that I went to actually delivered my two children, both were C-sections. I gave birth to my son when I was sixteen, but turned seventeen a month after his birth, I became pregnant again within a year of given birth to my son. I was unable to take any birth control pills, as they would mess me up on my periods to which were already so screwed up as they were. My GYN advised me that having another baby so soon after being cut open, that I would most likely having a miscarriage, and that I wasn’t only putting the baby in danger, but that I also could have major complications trying to carry a baby to full term was most unlikely. We made the decision to terminate the pregnancy. It was close to three years later that I gave birth to my little girl, and she would also be my last pregnancy. I was twenty years old, and I prayed that God would heal me of the monthly nightmare’s of all of the pain, grief, anger, all of the misguided advice over so many, many years of never knowing why, or what was wrong with me! I can name each and every single physician, Primary’s, as well as every OB/GYN doctors I also asked, (NO PRAYED) to please find out what and why I had literally lived with this painful, horrible and severe condition for so long without/not one of any of these doctors could put a name to what the heck it was I had!!! After giving birth to my baby girl, I was finally able and old enough to decide that I never wanted another child, thereby telling the doctor to cut, and burn my tubes; whatever it took to stop my from ever having another child again. I will return later to finish up what I was trying to ask in the first place, but I became somewhat side tracked, because I want all of you ladies, young, middle age, and elderly to know what can, and HAS happened to me) in my case….there was neglect, at most times uncaring, unfeeling, dissatisfaction, but above all of what happened to me, I became extremely depressed, a jumble of mixed emotions even guilt, yes guilt, with each doctor that I seen both older, and newer ones, I felt shame, and guilt for each time I would make an appointment to one of the doctors that I had seen on separate, but numerous times about my (constant problem), it became at times that I found myself feeling guilty and shameful and at many times it was even hard to talk with these doctors and look them straight in their eyes, my eyes pleading for answers, understanding, and to not feel shame for putting these doctors through the same questions over & over, again and again, and to no advail they continued to tell nothing new for they had no answer, be it the right or the wrong one.

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